Dating is a journey. The sooner you realize and accept this, the better off you will be. When you see a couple that appears to be happily married, you really don’t know the story behind how they ended up together. You see the end result…the holding hands and the smiles. You didn’t see the incompatible people they dealt with along…
Category: Dating Fears
If He Doesn’t Approach Me, How Can He Take the Lead?
He seems thoughtful, kind, spiritual, hard-working, mature, and responsible. He’s physically attractive. You’ve heard he’s also fun to hang around. Maybe you’ve even spotted him among mutual friends having a good time. This seems like the type of person you’d like to genuinely get to know more about…but you do nothing. What’s stopping you? Pause. I’ve seen this scenario play…
“The ratio” – part 2
As the weekend approaches, do you ever find yourself thinking this on a Friday night? “I hope someone invites me to something.” The same girls you normally hang with invite you out to do the same things you end up doing every weekend (usually involving eating, happy hour, or some activity you just find yourself going along with). The group…
“The ratio” – part 1
Have you ever heard this term? I remember I’d be hanging out with some single friends, and the conversation would excitedly shift to the dating topic. There always seemed to be that one person who would remind everyone of the “ratio”, so we wouldn’t get too excited. Or, that one guy hanging with a group of us single women who…